How relationships start
In this article, we will discuss the various factors that influence the start of relationships, factors such as: first impressions, similarities and differences in interests, and more.
What do i mean by "Relationship" ?
A Relationship, at least for this blog post, shall refer to any existing relations between two or more individuals that is friendly, professional, or romantic in nature
Factors that Influence the Start of Relationships
The following are variables on how relationships start:
- First Impressions;
- How often do your interactions happen;
- How different or similar are your interests;
- And whether you are a person of interest.
First Impressions
What are First impressions?
It's simply the first judgement of character a person has to another, which are usually based on the person's demeanor, profession, and how they dress and talk.
How to have a good first impression?
- Dress appropriately;
- Maintain good personal hygiene; And
- Be a good listener.
Things to keep in mind:
- Having a good first impression has a long-lasting effect and will help you establish camaraderie much more easier, the opposite is also true.
- A bad first impression is not the end-all of a potential relationship.
For more information regarding first impressions click here
How often do you interact towards each other?
Interacting with one another is the first step on starting a relationship; The more you interact, the more opportunity you are able to show each other's character and interests.
In which you and the other person are able to assess whether you want more out of the relationship or not.
An interaction between individuals, however, doesn't necessarily mean it will be pleasant; How pleasant an interaction will be, depends on how similar your and interests are.
How different or similar are your interests?
The more similar your interests are, the more pleasant the activities and conversations you two will have; vice versa.
This can be in form on being knowledgeable about a certain topic, competent in a sport or instrument, etc., it doesn't matter, it just have to be something the you two have interest on.
What if I have a lot of interests?
Having an abundance amounts of diverse interests is not bad; It allows you to talk a variety of topics and do more activities with a variety of people.
Are you a Person of Interest?
People tend to gather around individuals who have already attracted interest from other people; Having a reputation that interest people, will make it easier for relationships to occur.
For more information about why reputation matters, click here.
How to Start a Healthy and Strong Relationship
Open and Honest Communication
Clear and open lines of communication are essential to ensure that both individuals feel comfortable and supported.
Open and honest communications not only helps us understand the other person's perspectives, thoughts, and feelings, it can also resolve misunderstandings.
Setting clear boundaries
By establishing clear boundaries and communicating openly about what can be done and what cannot be done, you both can ensure that your needs are met and are aware of what to expect in the relationship.
Setting clear boundaries will also make sure unnecessary disputes from ever occuring.
Be present and engage
Similar to being open and honest in communication, being present and engaged in the relationship can help to build trust and create a deeper connection.
By being present and engaged you show the person that he is worth of your attention and time, which will make him feel valued.
Unless you are using them to share something, put aside any devices or objects that require your attention when interacting with someone, it shows that you value them and they will appreciate you for it.
If you are interested in knowing how to maintain a relationship for a long time, then visit this blog post.
SUMMARY
- Relationships can take many forms, including romantic relationships, friendships, and professional relationships.
- First Impressions. Good First impressions have a long-lasting effect and will help you establish comaraderie, vice versa.
- Interaction. It is the first step on starting a relationship, it grants the opportunity to identify each other's character and interests.
- How different or similar are your interest. The more similar the interest, the more pleasant the activites and conversations will be.
- Are you a person of interest? People tend to group around individuals who have already attracted interest from other people.
- Open and Honest Communication ensures that both individuals understand each other's perspective, thoughts, and feelings.
- Setting boundaries helps to establish mutual respect and ensures that both individuals have their needs met.
- Being present and engaged in the relationship can help to build trust and create a deeper connection.
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